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The real reboot is coming in September

ledvinkovapetra
3 days ago
4 min read

Forget about January resolutions.


You promise yourself a fresh start at the exact moment when your body is most tired, the days are shortest, and your motivation to change is at its lowest of the year. It's no wonder that most January resolutions don't survive February.

The real turning point comes four months earlier.

In my coaching practice, I therefore work with radiance as a natural point of reflection. In this article, I will show you the specific tools I use to do so – the ones that will really help you figure out what to do next.

Why September works better than January

The difference between September and January isn't just the amount of data you have available. It's systemic.

The January rhythm is purely institutional. The calendar year is an administrative construct designed to make the year count – not live it.

September, on the other hand, follows a much older pattern: the school year, the end of the growing season, the end of one phase and the preparation for the next. The body and psyche react to this rhythm differently than to the arbitrary first of January. It is a rhythm that we have known since childhood and is embedded much more deeply than the corporate calendar.

Five questions that are not enough on their own

The standard five points of a career inventory are:

  • What fulfilled me?

  • What exhausted me?

  • What would I not do again?

  • Where did I grow the most?

  • What did I sacrifice?

But here's the catch: the questions themselves are only half the tool. The technique of answering is key, because an abstract question reliably generates an abstract and therefore unusable answer.

Scaling with contrast. For questions about fulfillment and exhaustion, I don't work with a general feeling, but with specific moments on a scale of 1 to 10. I don't ask "how fulfilling was my work," but: when in the last nine months were you at an energy level of 9 or 10? What exactly was happening then - what task, what people, what pace, what environment?

I ask about the bottom of the scale with the same focus. The contrast between the top and the bottom reveals a pattern that a general question would never notice.

Writing without censorship. For the question "what I wouldn't do again," I recommend that clients write for three minutes continuously without lifting their hand from the paper or keyboard, without editing. The goal is to bypass the internal censor, which would otherwise soften the answer before you can actually formulate it. The technique works reliably precisely because it eliminates the room for rationalization.

After this exercise, one client wrote me a sentence she would never dare say out loud: "I will never again pretend that I don't mind someone else presenting my work." That sentence helped her open a conversation in three months that she had been putting off for a year.

Burnout or just natural fatigue?

This is the tool I use most often in practice – because the symptoms of both conditions are outwardly almost identical: fatigue, decreased motivation, cynicism. But the distinction lies entirely elsewhere than in the intensity of the symptoms.

The Matrix of Energy and Meaning

Draw two scales next to each other. Energy – physical and mental capacity, from low to high. And meaning – why I do this work and what it's for, also from low to high.


Low energy

High energy

High sense

Natural fatigue, need for rest

Healthy working condition

Low sense

Close to burnout, need for direction reflection

The risk of burnout disguised as performance

Low energy combined with high sense usually means the system needs a break, not reconstruction.

Low energy combined with low purpose signals a need to reevaluate direction, not just plan a vacation. And here, a vacation typically doesn't solve the problem—it just postpones it.

Additional clue: language. Natural fatigue is often described in temporal metaphors – "weight", "I need to lie down". Something that has a horizon and will pass. Burnout is often described spatially – "emptiness", "fog". Something without a clear horizon.

This difference in metaphor tends to be a more accurate indicator in practice than self-assessment questionnaires.

Don't know where you would fit in the matrix? Write me a few words about how you would describe your current situation - even in one sentence. I'll be happy to help you place it.

From inventory to one step to Q4

A standard mistake after any reflection is to turn it into a list of resolutions—essentially a January ritual just moved nine months later. The opposite approach is more effective: distillation .

One-step filter. From the entire inventory, select only the answer or sentence that was repeated in the reflection or was the most emotionally powerful. Not the most ambitious one.

Systemic anchoring. Instead of the classic SMART goal that targets an individual in isolation, I recommend a question tied to the surrounding system: who or what in my work environment will need to know about or agree to this step for it to work?

Change that does not take into account the context – the supervisor, the team, or the client – has a low implementation rate. Not because of a lack of will, but because work systems are interconnected.

Anchoring in time. A step without a specific time anchor remains an intention, not an action. The functional formulation is not "I will be different starting in October," but rather "I will take the first specific step on Monday at 9:00." A specific time associated with a specific action significantly increases the likelihood that it will actually happen.

Do you want to take your own September inventory?

I use this framework in my coaching sessions when working on career transitions and burnout prevention.

If you want to go through the September inventory with someone who will ask you the right follow-up questions at the right time, contact me. I'll be happy to guide you through it.

 
 
 

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